by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Jan 12, 2016 | Home, Personal | 0 Comments
Life is not a bed of roses. It is like a roller coaster full of ups and downs. It is our choice to just scream or enjoy the ride. Michael Rodriguez Do you know who you are and what you want in life? Many of us go through life reacting to our environment and...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 11, 2016 | Home, Personal | 0 Comments
Human beings lie on the continuum from the lesser self to the goodself. None of us are divine nor totally evil. What we are could be the product of nature and nurture in our journey of life. We may inherit some good and bad genes from our family tree of our...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 11, 2016 | Home, Personal | 0 Comments
Johari (Joseph Luft and and Harrington Ingham) established 4 windows for us to discover ourselves and help us to conduct our way of life. They are: Open self Open self is a situation where “I know myself and others know me.” Opening my good self...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 26, 2016 | Personal | 0 Comments
The assertive personality has a high need for power, image, prestige and control. He is ambitious and sees power and status as a measure of success and a means to a quality life. He believes that with power, position and status he can shape the environment to...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 26, 2016 | Personal | 0 Comments
The neurotic personality has low need for achievement. He has little purpose in life and is not bothered and interested in goal accomplishment. He finds work boring and often works grudgingly at a slow pace for a living. The neurotic personality prefers to drift...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 26, 2016 | Personal | 0 Comments
High integrity people seek goodness and wisdom. They will not engage in counterproductive activities to achieve their personal goals. They are true to themselves in their value system. They believe in fairness and justice and will not place their personal agendas...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 14, 2016 | Personal | 0 Comments
Are you happy with your job? Do you enjoy carrying out your duties and responsibilities? Are you motivated to grow your potentials and become the best of the best in what you are doing? If YES, congratulation you have found a career that fits your personality. If the...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 26, 2016 | Personal | 0 Comments
Why parents must know your child. Your child is a unique personality with needs, wants desire or drive and a list of traits and characteristics that may be consistent or varies throughout the child’s life. Knowing your child’s personality makes you an effective...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 11, 2016 | Home, Personal | 0 Comments
Introduction High Self-Actualization – The Nurturing Parents The nurturing parents focus on the overall development of their children. They spend time and money developing their children potentials and abilities. They take high initiatives to prepare them...
by Dr. Bernard A.T. Tan | Mar 11, 2016 | Home, Personal | 0 Comments
Passionate Type (High Sociocentric) Your girl friend prefers a man who can give her a lot of love, care and attention. Romance is the name of the game to win her heart. Shower her with love and demonstrate your devotion to her by sending her...
